Very very sorry to hear this Penny. We will all miss him, as will his friends and family. Man, I hate to sound corny and trite, but please please take care of yourself. Reach out to your friends and family for support.
Penny, I'm really sorry to hear that news. I knew Tom a little and thought he was one of the good guys, with a great approach to adversity in his life. Our best wishes and thoughts to you.
=K __________________________________________ I just got to play my own 50-watt amp through my own full stack. I'll go deaf any second now, but really, I just don't care. - Sean F